Objectives for Prenatal Support Group

 

Goals / Objectives for a 4 week session

  1. Spend time being conscious of the pregnancy, aware and celebrating this journey and this new being.
    1. Members will be asked to commit to attending all four weeks of the session
    2. Members will be given pregnancy journal pages each week to complete at home
  2. Members start to re-vision themselves as mothers and their partners as dads
    1. Members will think of ways to take care of themselves after birth
    2. Members will be able to identify sources of support for after birth
    3. Members will list ways to balance tasks with partner after birth
  3. Members will make connections with other mothers on various steps on the pregnancy/postpartum pathway
    1. Members will be given opportunities to exchange contact info
    2. Members will be encouraged to seek out connections with others
    3. Moms will be encouraged to come back and share birth stories
  4. Members will explore various aspects of mind-body connection within pregnancy and alternate ways to prepare for birth
    1. Members will be able to demonstrate slow belly breathing, breathing in energy and out tension
    2. Members will be able to describe the basics of energy medicine / touch therapy
    3. Members will complete exercises in relaxation and visualization techniques
    4. Members will complete birth art activities

 

 

Goals for each meeting.

  1. Members arrive: those arriving on-time get bonus activity, those who are late don’t miss check-in
    1. Examples: Videos, Games, Stretching & Exercises, Common Discomforts discussion, hand massage techniques
  2. Members feel welcomed, and valued parts of the group, feeling like their voices were heard
    1. Activity: Check-in, with a focus question each week (write out so they can see it)
    2. First session: go over rules for check-in. Reinforce after that.

                                                              i.      Each person gets a turn. During their turn, the rest of us sit quietly and listen (OK to interject supportive comments, occasional questions… not OK to take over her check-in time with your own stories.)

                                                           ii.      Members answer the week’s focus question in whatever depth they want to answer it. Then share news of their week: highs and lows, challenge and joys, changes in plans, updates on pregnancy, whatever.

                                                         iii.      There aren’t any special time requirements or time limits: just be aware that we have 45 minutes for everyone to have a turn.

  1. Members have new concrete skills which prepare them for birth or parenting. Examples:
    1. Exercises: Kegels, squatting, pelvic tilts, tailor sitting, breathing. Yoga.
    2. Relaxation techniques: Progressive relaxation, breathwork
    3. Visualization techniques
    4. Crying and calming techniques
    5. Couple conflict resolution skills
  2. Members have explored the spiritual and emotional and lifestyle changes which accompany the transition. Examples.
    1. Birth art: sculptures
    2. Reading memoir sections and discussing
    3. Time pie, or other hands-on reality check of what life with newborn is really like
    4. Hopes and fears discussion
    5. Discussion of pain and overcoming challenges, finding new strengths
    6. Where do babies come from? Spiritual perspectives on the soul of the baby
    7. What is your role as a parent: teacher of information? Guide to proper behavior? Emotional supporter? Physical caretaker? What goals come from this? What’s your measure of success?

 

 

Schedule for each meeting:

15 minutes arrival and bonus activity

45 minutes Check-In

15 minutes activity

45 minutes activity (one of these activities will be a concrete skill, one will be emotional exploration)

 

Options for names:

Journey through Pregnancy

Journey through Pregnancy: Companions on the Path

The Pregnancy Journey

Sharing the Journey through Pregnancy

Transition to Parenthood

Transition to Parenthood: Walking the Path Together

On the Path to Parenthood

Sharing the Path to Parenthood

Experiencing Pregnancy

Celebrating Pregnancy

Becoming a Mother

 

Possible Sub-Titles

A Discussion Group

A Pre-Natal Support Group

Prenatal support and education

A group for exploring and celebrating pregnancy and the transition to parenthood.

Share your experience of pregnancy, and experience mutual support on the path to parenthood

 

Who is this for?

Pregnant women at any stage of pregnancy. Women who want to spend time thinking about and reflecting on their pregnancy.

Minimum: 4 members, maximum: 12.

Could do moms and partners… would be a different dynamic.

 

This is intended as a supplement to childbirth preparation classes, for those who want to spend more time exploring the psychological, emotional, and spiritual changes of pregnancy and early parenthood.

I encourage all group members to also attend birth preparation classes with their partners or support people.

 

Link to parent information about a prenatal support group.

Link to FAQ about support group.

Back to Home Page for Resources for Childbirth Educators

 

c. 2004, Janelle Durham, Transition to Parenthood